The Tested Tips for Having a Long Healthy Friendship: Does the Forever Kind of Friendship Exist?

Introduction

How difficult is to find a friend, very easy! How difficult is it to find a good friend, moderate and how difficult is it to find a best friend for life, difficult because we can't find such friends but we create them with our loyalty, time and understanding. Even a good person can't be absorbed & lived in a few years.

Alike, a good relationship of love, friendship is the highest form of love and without, you may miss the magical creation of the god. We believe, there's nothing wrong when you find a person as only a good friend but not a best friend because there are certain limits & attributes to which we love & trust people but to go deep, we need to form great understandings.

So, it's not wrong to say, to build great friendships, we all have to go through hardships like Lord Krishna and Sudama.

Here are some of the tested tips that can take your friendship to the next level where even no one can't destroy it forever:

1. A Good Silence Between Friends

With our experiences, most people make life decisions based on who they are talking to and what they do. If a person has some significance in your life, you try to make every effort to maintain a great level of your friendship. Most people think friendship is a need of constant touch and it's significant but as we have only one life, responsibilities, work and family, we don't have much constant time to be in touch with our best friends but it doesn't mean we stop giving priority to our friends.

Understand, a good silence is much significant than good words. Most friendship get broken just because people don't find time to be in touch even if nothing has ever happened wrong in their friendships.

• Make your friendship so peaceful that even silence feels good. We don't need a strange discomfort when our friends leave us for sometime to lead their lives.

2. Less Expectations and More Acceptance

I always say again & again to keep less expectations and more acceptance because as we reach the best level of friendship, we try to keep a high level of expectations from our friends and that's the biggest blunder to increase burden of your expectations on your friends shoulders.

It's significant to note, we should have time when our friends are in need but during a normal routine, more acceptance is the key to taking friendship and laughter to the next level.

You can take it as a selfish attitude but this is the practical solution to make a life balance.

3. Stay Empathetic

When you're talking to someone, you aren't just taking on a person but a very different life. People take a very long time to understand this.

You aren't solely running this world. Stay empathetic to learn about people and be in peace to learn about the emotions of your friends.

Even if you are in need, don't cross the limit of over taking. Don't make the burden of your need & emotions on your friends shoulders always. When you learn about how emotions work, you will become unbeatable because you aren't talking to intelligent people but emotional creatures. They do most things in emotions than intelligence.

4. Make Friendship So Strong that You Can Understand Each Other in Silence

We believe, when words are understandable, then silence should be. Knowing your best friend's habits, attributes, life and emotions is the key to a healthy friendship. Silent acts are very effective and make bonds very strong but this process requires a lot of asking for years.

Slowly you will know a lot about someone that even you don't always need to ask for their words.

I believe this is the pure key, to make friendship so strong that even silence says everything more loud than words to each other.

5. Quarrels and Difficulties aren't the End of Friendship

Toxic relationships need to be ended but a good friendship needs to be revived again and again until we stop fighting over the same issues again and again and learn a new step above it. If a person is significant to you, you shouldn't always bother about the talk he's doing.

Difficulties come in every relationship but most people find it an exceptional part to end the beautiful friendship in between.

Always make your efforts when you can and you will find, no fights and difficulties can ever stop the forever kind of friendship.

6. Every friendship has Good and Bad Elements too.

If you are finding a perfect person for friendship, you will find only God and after, everything else is just growing. Every person has some good and bad attributes but if we judge him based on his attributes, we will always be alone. Bad attributes doesn't mean they are a bad character but may be these attributes aren't acceptable to us. We all are right and wrong based on people's opinions.

Try to focus on good attributes of people and when you will develop strong emotions with people, it will become difficult to leave a person easily.

In the beginning of a friendship, it's easy to leave but after a strong bond, it's very difficult to leave.

Every friendship has good and bad elements too. If you always focus on the bad, the good things will disappear.

7. Change is the Only Eternal, Be Ready

Everything gets changed including you and your best friend. Expecting the same life is like depicting the highest level of selfishness. Everything is changing and surely, your friend will be and when you understand if those changes are acceptable, you will be alright and your friendship will survive because we believe it's the person's core character that is significant and everything else is just the forced life events.

• Keep the relationship than to keep the guilt for life.

8. Everything Will Not Come in Your Favour, Remember That

You have a best friend and you may have a great influence on him but that doesn't mean everything you do, will come in your favour as you want. Above everything, anything can happen and if you feel, you know that person better and it's right to continue such friendship, you should.

When you perceive your life, you can't put someone else in your grid always but making it a best trade-off, is the right way to not steal anyone's time.

9. In Modern Times, People can Still Love You Even When They Aren't With You

It really feels good when someone feels love just because of you and that's the purest part of our lives. Can you imagine, someone is happy just because you exist in their life. The best way to love someone is to love him under any conditions with no expectations in return.

As we all are stuck in so many grids that we are helpless to find much time as we always want to give to our loved ones. If someone doesn't give you the time, that doesn't mean he hates you. In modern times, people can love you even when you aren't in their life constantly.

Someone is busy making life, achieving goals, going through pain, struggles, family problems, and anything, that's why it's significant to know & understand about the people you are living with.

People hide too much even to their best friends sometimes and that's why we shouldn't be quick to judge someone.

Be late but accurate. Love exists in the open air. Don't make any relationship a burden by keeping all your life expectations on it.